Tribute by
Cousins (Abroad)
Eulogy for Mrs. Christiana Akwesi (Affectionately called Teacher Okanorkor):
Today, we have gathered here to celebrate the life of our beloved cousin and sister, Mrs. Akwesi. While her passing has left a void in our lives, her unwavering love, kindness, and generosity remain etched in our hearts forever.
Mrs. Akwesi was truly an amazing woman. It was always a joy to see her while on holiday with her children in La. She loved her family and friends more than anything and will always lend a hand or a shoulder to lean on when needed. A woman of remarkable strength, industrious, a heart for teaching and very generous. She embraced the life of a longtime educator, always wanted more of herself and those around her.
Amanda recalls her time with her was very brief. Her final year in Form 5, short it was but it left a lasting impression. She always had an encouraging word, she never stopped taking care of everyone. On top of all these she would go out to teach every day and return in a positive mood. As I raise my boys today, I am reminded of her strength and resilience, her zest for life and empathy. And I thank God that I had a role model in her and hope that I make her proud in my choices and how I raise my children.
Kate recalls time with her, after her secondary education, I was posted to a town right out of Cape Coast for National Service. I was hosted by Mrs. Akwesi and her family and quickly found out the town of my posting was not an attractive location. Feeling anxious and concerned, she told me not to worry about the situation and helped find an alternate at University Primary on UCC campus. With other service personnel she was hosting that year, she gave us accommodation, and made sure we had everything we needed while serving. We hung in with her children and created the bond and friendship we have today. I am forever grateful for the kindness and generosity she showed us.
David recalls his time with her during his Adisco days. During the course of the school year, every now and then she will invite me over to her house for homemade meals and socialize with the family. A needed breakaway from boarding school life I always looked forward to.
The times that we shared with her were rewarding, she made home cooking and baking fun for all with her “own” recipes, taught us how to make baked beans, sardines from scratch and was very big on gardening – a family hobby everyone in her household participated in. As a mother, she always wanted the best for everyone, including those visiting or staying with her. She saw the good in all of us. She took pride in knowing how our day went and what she could do to make our stay with her go smoother. She taught us to be humble no matter where we are in life. Teacher Okanorkor was a beacon of light in our lives, a person who taught us the true meaning of kindness and being generous.
While we mourn the loss of our beloved cousin today, let us take comfort in the countless memories she left us, the lives she touched, and the love she shared with us all. We are forever grateful, and you will always be in our hearts.
Till we all meet again, TEACHER OKANORKOR, ANYEMI YAAWO, YAAWO OJOGBAN.